see, when you think no one is reading your blog, you can spout off about anything.

sadly, once you know that everyone from your family to your friends in other states to the current significant others of your exes are reading it, it becomes an inappropriate place to put frustrated love (okay, well, not love but certainly hormones) letters to people who you can't send that sort of thing to in.

(that sentence, correctly diagrammed, will get you a cookie next time you see me in person.)