it's occurred to me today (thanks for posting something that triggered this, darkhawk) that pretty much anyone who has a set of "rules for relationships" or "tools for healthy relationships" posted on the web is someone who, to put it mildly, i shouldn't date.

it's good that you have your life so well figured out. it's good that you're willing to share your knowledge with other people.

it's good that i've noticed the bit where there's a negative correlation between how much you preach and how together your life actually is, as opposed to how together you'd like people to think it is.

it's good that i know to stay far far away.