four years ago this week i told my exhusband that i wanted a divorce.

it seems to have worked out well for me, and from what i hear through the grapevine, for him. so, a good move all around.

i feel like i ought to write several long maudlin paragraphs here, but i'm not feeling maudlin about it. it just occurs to me every year around halloween, hey, anniversary. or not-anniversary. or something. (why does english not have a word for this?)